Logo

How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 07:32

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Largest map of the universe announced revealing 800,000 galaxies, challenging early cosmos theories - Phys.org

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

U.S. Home Sellers Are Sitting on Nearly $700 Billion Worth of Listings, an All-Time High - Redfin

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why does my dog keep licking at her privates now? She is 7 years old and has barely started licking there. The vet said she’s fine but she keeps doing that.

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

And-Ones: NBA On TNT, Offseason, Free Agents, Finals - Hoops Rumors

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

Washington governor activates National Guard in search for accused killer, Travis Decker - KATU

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Samsung is giving these Galaxy phones a big One UI upgrade - here's which models qualify - ZDNET

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Procrastinates a lot.

King Charles praised for 'faultless' firing technique at Larkhill - BBC

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Does not procrastinate.

Wow! The changeover from President Biden to VP Kamala Harris as candidate could not have been more successful in just 2 days! It was as if they had been planning it. Could they have planned it? Are you excited by the positive Democratic response?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Google Confirms Most Gmail Users Must Upgrade Accounts - Forbes

What I need from you?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do so many people find Kakashi's character so appealing and inspirational?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Call of Duty plagued with issues after Season 4 launch - Windows Central

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What, when building a house, are the necessary wires (beside 120v) to future proof my house, Cat6, Coax, low voltage, and alarm wires?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Texas woman died after rinsing sinuses with infected tap water — here’s how to keep yourself safe - New York Post

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Celebrity breast cancer announcements highlight rising rates in young women - NBC News

Do not set goals—set systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Bono Educates Joe Rogan on DOGE’s ‘Pure Evil’ USAID Cuts - Rolling Stone

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).